This was absolutely my favourite play event while I was in Berlin and so unique in it’s set up.
As many of you will know I particularly enjoy scenes with more than two players. There’s an extra thrill in the complexity of how 3 or more people interact: Playing with two subs, or another Domina, or in a hierarchy where some one subs to me but is top to another person in the play. I love how these situations push me to think more creatively and give space for unexpected twists and turns of perversion.
In the past I’ve usually done this with quite a bit of pre-arrangement, knowing everyone involved and their particular interests.
The FemDom play in Berlin was different: 20 Dominants and 25 subs!! That took things to completely another level. People applied to be part of the scene in advance, but didn’t necessarily know each other. Written suggestions and play space rules were sent out by email but there was still a hugely undefined open space of how people would relate.
This wasn’t two, three or even four different people to interact with but an entire room full!! A large group of people, none of whom I really knew, where we all consented to basic ground rules and then left the rest to on the spot mini negotiations.
My experience was incredibly dynamic, no single focus of play, more shifting centres over the course of a few hours, and lots of fun, friendly, hot people.
To play off various subs against each other, to make them do things to each other for My amusement, to stack up an array of people and move between them, or to have all of them worship Me at once.
Catching the eye of a Dominant close by and saying ‘Would you mind moving the sub you are beating a little closer to where I am sitting so I can reach them with My whip?’. So I could receive a massage, prop My feet up on a piece of human furniture, hit the submissive infront of Me AND add to a nearby submissives pain. Bliss!!
Feeling the energy of playing with one, two or more people for as long as that seemed to be sparking, then asking for something different. Sending people off in the direction of another Domina if I was no longer amused by them, or noticing something interesting happening nearby and going to investigate.
Such a setting demands skill, creativity and excellent communication skills, to make the most of it. I think it could easily have felt overwhelming, but for Me it felt like a wonderful opportunity to really stretch My wings. So.Much.Fun!! (and I was approached by quite a few people afterwards for future play dates 🙂 ). I’m definitely going to make sure to do this again and I absolutely recommend it as a form of organising play. Kudos to the people who hosted this particular event.