Back from holiday!!! Strange scenes in Vienna, it’s good to be home.

I confess, I was away longer than I had originally planned, such things happen especially when having fun. What I had thought was going to be a few days away from the dungeon has stretched into a couple of weeks. Most of… Read More

Vienna Holiday 25th – 30th June

Well seeings as London has had such a complete blazer of a summer so far I have decided to do what I did last year and get some sun elsewhere. While Berlin is a favourite destination, this year I have decided to… Read More

Small penis, humiliation, fantasy, role play and ‘The Patriarchy’. *le sigh*

I can feel a RANT coming on. Recently i have noticed a few comments from others that are very judging of other peoples kinks. If there is one rule I have held precious in the kink community it is ‘don’t judge other… Read More

Conference! Whoop! Whoop!

It’s still almost a whole month away but I am excited about the upcoming BDSM conference at the end of the month. I didn’t make it to the Easter Conference in Berlin, being otherwise occupied with house moving, so I have missed… Read More

online perversion

I don’t think I have ever seen myself as ‘nerd’ material, I don’t own any horn-rimmed glasses or any cable knit cardigans with interesting leather buttons. I admit I sniggered while writing the words ‘horn-rimmed’ and that My ears pricked up at… Read More

That transgender thang

As a Kick Arse Queer Dyke sometimes the cultural gaps between My world and the straight (read heterosexual) world can seem confusing… both for me and the people I meet in My role as a professional Mistress. To start with the categories… Read More

Bound and gagged…. (or how I escaped macrame hell)

Some time ago I had the pleasure of attending a local SM Dykes workshop on rope bondage. Now rope is not one of the things I would put in my top 20, or even top 50 list of ‘kinky things I like… Read More

The art of letter writing

What a shame stupidity is, by this i do not mean a lack of intellect. There are many different kinds of intelligence: emotional, academic, gifts in all areas of life. While I enjoy witty conversation, I am not such a snob as… Read More


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